Nobody is "solo"

[Joe]

Nobody posting in this one?
Good..... Dr.Joe does it again!

[coppertop75]

sure i am lonely, however i am sure that no-one cares to hear about it....so that is why no one is posting joe--we dont have time to listen to folks complain about being lonely....when most of us hear it every day at work...

[Joe]

it's not really complaining,
I see it as a way to "vent".....and who said nobody cares?
you should know this by now

RedHeads!....I tell you what! (as a good friend of mine would say)

[Henry]

Lonley and being alone...Hmmmmm...to my way of thinking, two relative but not totally identical concepts. I love my time alone. Im not sure why people at your job would be asking you about your lonliness only to demonstrate that they couldnt care less. I was under the impression that you were happy with the BF, the job, the move, and all the new opportunities that lay ahead for you. This is the first indication that Ive heard that things werent going as well as planned. You know me well enough to know that I wouldnt BS you. so Hit me up with a personal if you dont wanna post it for all to see. It would great to hear from ya again my little rusty surfaced individual. Im alway available to chat with you.

[grasshoppa]

Lonely Joe...A person can be with someone and still be alone. Been there and done that. Every time I turned around my ex was off doing something without me I didn't get included in the fun. Loneliness leaves a HUGE hole of nothing. when I go there it drags me down to a depression like state. All I want is to be left alone to dwell in my frustrations...Eventually I figure things out and become a happy little ray of sunshine. It is a very bad feeling to be alone unless it is you yourself that has put you there. It's not my favorite place to be but I have learned to deal with it... especially lately. Oh well you get over it eventually

[Joe]

Usually If I decide I want to be in "a state of loneliness" it's because I made that decision....that is not a bad thing, sometimes you need time away to reflect , regroup and go back at-it!
I think feeling lonely is all a state of mind.... really... human beings are social creatures....but that doesnt necessarily mean that they have to be around somebody 24/7..... interactions are good... being dependent is not.

I'd like to hear what "The Intellectual Moderator" has to say?

It would be nice to hear from : smilieluz13 - Jsundeen - badboythatsme- smiles mean no good - toys_in_the_making- banana_girl.....and what the hay even from "The Evil Moderator"...
MyMichele you are welcome anytime.

Thank you.....you guys are GREAT!

[grasshoppa]

I agree Joe, being dependent is not good. I told my ex when we first got together that I don't need him I want him...obviously he didn't understand it cause we are no longer together. I have always been a fairly independent female... to rely on someone drives me insane. I can't stand having everything handed to me. I feel if I work for it. it gives me more self gratification to know that I earned what I have accumilated.

[Jsundeen]

Awwww thanks SmileLuz and bad Boy are in my room, and just wanted to say you are great too, and if you every feel lonely come knock on our door. you are super duper for creating this site you sooooo rock!!!!!

[Joe]

Jsundeen....is there a party in da house?
Maybe Dr. Joe will make a house call one of these days!
and by the way.....LEAVE MY SCORES ALONE !!!

[Joe]

I lived in different countries.... traveled a little, and saw a few things.
One thing I noticed is that "commercial holidays" exist in all those places.
I mean.... let's talk about Christmas for example... we all know what the true meaning of Christmas is all about (atleast I hope so?)
In many countries Christmas is seen as an economy booster, a way to gain material goods and a few days off work! (If you're lucky)
People are reminded to think about others in need......, they're nicer, and some of them remember to go to Church to make their once a year appearance.
Now, Im not saying that everybody thinks this way, but according to my pie charts there's a nice chunk of them!
And it never fails... once the holiday is gone, alot of people are depressed because of debt they accumulated during the holidays..... they didnt like the things they got.... the family reunion thing didnt go as planned, people forget to be nice.........but hey! atleast they dont have to attend Church for another Year!!!!